I was recently asked to review the book “The 5 Love Languages of Children” by Gary Chapman and Ross Campbell. The book “The Five Love Languages” was originally written by Gary Chapman for couples, but found that the same principles could also be applied to how you love and treat your children.
The premise of the book is that there are five love languages and everyone “speaks” one more dominantly than the the others. Whatever your child’s “primary language” is, that is the one that will be more effective at communicating with the child on an emotional level, and will thus make him/her more responsive.
The five love languages are physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time, gifts and acts of service. There is a whole chapter for each of the love languages as well as chapters on discovering your child’s language and how they affect discipline and learning.
So I found it a very useful book and look forward to applying the principles as my children get older. For now, they really need them all equally. I’m still trying to pinpoint my husband’s “love language” and even my own. I’m sure I will be holding onto this book for a while, and may even try to get him to read it!
*I received this product in exchange for my honest review through Mom Spark Media. All opinions expressed are my own.*