Book Review: The 5 Love Languages of Children
I was recently asked to review the book “The 5 Love Languages of Children” by Gary Chapman and Ross Campbell. The book “The Five Love Languages” was originally written by Gary Chapman for couples, but found that the same principles could also be applied to how you love and treat your children.
The premise of the book is that there are five love languages and everyone “speaks” one more dominantly than the the others. Whatever your child’s “primary language” is, that is the one that will be more effective at communicating with the child on an emotional level, and will thus make him/her more responsive.
The five love languages are physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time, gifts and acts of service. There is a whole chapter for each of the love languages as well as chapters on discovering your child’s language and how they affect discipline and learning.
So I found it a very useful book and look forward to applying the principles as my children get older. For now, they really need them all equally. I’m still trying to pinpoint my husband’s “love language” and even my own. I’m sure I will be holding onto this book for a while, and may even try to get him to read it!
*I received this product in exchange for my honest review through Mom Spark Media. All opinions expressed are my own.*
I need to get this book. My daughter is a combination of Physical touch, she loves kisses, hugs and back rubs and words of affirmation, she beams when we praise her.
These five love language points seem obvious but it’s always good to get a reminder in order to step back and see how you are doing and if there is any area you can improve upon. I think these are especially helpful to keep in mind when taking care of a marriage too.
I actually never really thought about these in categories until reading this book. And actually I think there is another book about the love languages between couples and this one was actually an offshoot of that.